One issue that has long divided humanity since time immemorial--or more accurately, since the advent of patriarchy about 7000 years ago--has been sexuality in general, especially as regards to Women's sexual freedom or lack thereof. While patriarchy's rather peculiar restrictions were primarily if not entirely designed by men to control Women, even many self-proclaimed feminists have also had their reservations about removing them. In the 1970s and 1980s, the "Feminist Sex Wars" were a classic example of such division. And to this day, there is still much controversy about just how sex-positive feminism ought to be.
Like most of us in the Matriarchy movement, I believe in a sexually free
society overall as far as consenting adults of all ages are concerned, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. Sexual
repression has been proven to do more harm than good on balance, and essentially
all of patriarchy's archaic and repressive rules about sex were designed
to control Women. That was originally done so men could be at least
somewhat certain of paternity, as descent was reckoned (and inheritances
were passed) through the male bloodline, though with the advent of
modern birth control and paternity testing such a reason has basically
become obsolete. Note the double standard of patriarchy in which Women
are far more likely to be punished for sexual transgressions, and how
men who sleep around are considered "studs" and "legends" while women
who do so are considered "sluts" and "whores". In contrast, Matriarchal
societies have historically been far more sexually free in general,
since knowledge of paternity was basically a non-issue as descent was
reckoned through the female bloodline. And when Women finally reclaim
their rightful position as the new leaders of the free world, I believe
that our society will become sexually free once again, albeit with some
concessions to modern times of course. In the meantime, we all need to
stop slut-shaming Women yesterday.
Unfortunately, though, the biggest slut-shamers these days tend to be female, and
these prudish modern-day Pharisees come in all ages, generations, and
all political leanings ranging from reich-wing fundies to sex-negative
radfems. This erotophobia is basically internalized patriarchy and
self-hating misogyny (especially on the right), as well as (especially
on the left) a fear that sexual freedom will lead to a "race to the
bottom" for Women much like so-called "free trade" and "free enterprise"
does for the broader working class. The former can be debunked as
effed up on its face, while the latter can be debunked by noting that
while men are naturally hard-wired to worship Women, employers are not
naturally hard-wired to worship their employees (would that it were
true!), so that analogy can only go so far in practice. Furthermore, the interests of capital and labor have always been opposed and always will be (unless capital and labor become one and the same), while the interests of men and Women are not inherently opposed (and did not become opposed until the advent of patriarchy). We should in fact be natural allies, but we fellas messed that up big time, and as they say the rest is history. And regardless, since the so-called "sexual revolution" of the 1960s-1970s, as much of a mixed bag as it were, Women have gained more far more power (relative to men) than they lost as a result of increased sexual freedom overall.
Additionally, patriarchy's repressive rules against masturbation, homosexuality,
and birth control are really a result of the fact that patriarchy is one
big Ponzi scheme (and protection racket) that requires very high birth
rates to keep it afloat. Thus, anything that frustrates that goal is
deemed "sinful". Patriarchy considers Women to be the brood mares, while
men are the work horses (except for the ruling 1%, of course, who reaps all the benefits). And in today's overpopulated world, such rules
are also obsolete as well. In Matriarchal societies, on the other
hand, overpopulation would never even have occurred in the first place
as Women would have complete sexual and reproductive freedom, and thus
not have had pregnancies forced upon them by men. Let that sink in for a moment.
I personally believe that there are two important rules for ethical sexual behavior in general. The first one is enthusiastic consent
(not mere grudging or reluctant "consent") for all parties involved, period.
Otherwise there is a name for it, and it is called RAPE. The second one
is, "whoever has the yoni makes the rules", as the primary goal for the
man should be to please the woman rather than merely pleasing himself.
And aside from general ethical principles such as "do not harm others"
that also are true for non-sexual matters, those are basically the only
rules for sex that we really need, that we may all enjoy mutual benefit and protection.
Speaking of protection, it should also go without saying that in 2016, condoms should generally be considered SOP (standard operating procedure) by default. The world is on fire, both in terms of the dire consequences of overpopulation as well as some people's STDs these days. But the point cannot be stressed enough.
For an excellent website for the fellas about sexuality, please check out Guru Rasa von Werder's site "Embodiment of God". Food for thought indeed. As Guru Rasa notes, sex is sacred, not sinful. It's time we started treating it accordingly.
Sunday, May 22, 2016
Happy (Belated) Mother's Day!
First, I would like to wish a Happy (belated) Mother's Day to all of the wonderful Mothers out there. You are, after all, literally the reason why the human race even exists at all, despite the fact that the work you do is grossly undervalued in so many way by our twisted capitalistic and patriarchal society. In other words, your beautiful feminine energy is essentially what keeps the rest of us alive. Thank you.
I would also like to note and lament how, for all the shallow platitudes America likes to throw around about "Mothers and apple pie", we are still a nation that perpetually continues to screw over Mothers and pregnant Women in so many ways. Recently, Guru Rasa von Werder shared a poignant and in-depth article from Vox with us that illustrates the various ways in which that is true. This article should be food for thought indeed. Our patriarchal and capitalistic society clearly has a "cult of motherhood", in which the "ideal" of motherhood is so highly vaunted, worshipped even, but in practice actual Mothers themselves get about as much genuine respect as Rodney Dangerfield. Both during and after pregnancy, so many Mothers are routinely discriminated against, overworked, underpaid, and even outright criminalized in many cases. And meanwhile, there is to this day a powerful faction of mostly male politicians that is doing everything in their power to deny Women their right to choose whether or not to get (or stay) pregnant in the first place. Indeed, the rank hypocrisy of our misogynistic and pharisaical system is so thick you could cut it with a knife.
Meanwhile, old Buckminster Fuller (who, not coincidentally, believed that Women should rule the world) must be spinning in his grave right now. With today's technology and innovation, there is literally no legitimate reason why we as a society need "everybody and their mother" (literally!) to "work for a living" unless they really wanted to. There are more than enough resources in the world for everyone on this planet to live like a millionaire, but the greedy oligarchs who control such resources apparently don't want to share. Combined with the outdated scarcity mentality that men tend to favor (as opposed to the abundance mentality that Women tend to favor), those same oligarchs have also done everything in their power to sabotage any alternatives (i.e. free and renewable energy) to their own evil system that they force upon the rest of us. So why make them even richer?
Additionally, just as we should "dispense with the absolutely specious notion that everybody needs to earn a living" (in Bucky's words), so too should we jettison the equally specious and outdated idea that everybody must procreate as though it were a civic duty. Not only does today's technology make much useful human labor redundant, but the world is grossly overpopulated and will only get more so in the coming decades, and despite the abundance of the world's resources we are chewing through them like there is no tomorrow while destroying the planet. And the main cause of that overpopulation is--wait for it--MEN. Because they are the ones who, both historically and today, force, coerce, deceive, and/or brainwash Women to have kids that they otherwise would not want or are not yet ready for. Men like to "get 'em while they're young" and then use them as serial breeding slaves, essentially, and all the euphemisms in the world do not change that fact. It is really no coincidence that the two most effective (and ethical) ways to reduce overpopulation and excessively high birthrates are 1) female empowerment and 2) poverty reduction, while everything else is a mere sideshow. Because when Women actually have a free and genuine choice on when or whether or not to reproduce, they usually make the right choices overall. After all, they are the ones who have the most "skin in the game". So let the planetary healing begin!
MAMASTE
I would also like to note and lament how, for all the shallow platitudes America likes to throw around about "Mothers and apple pie", we are still a nation that perpetually continues to screw over Mothers and pregnant Women in so many ways. Recently, Guru Rasa von Werder shared a poignant and in-depth article from Vox with us that illustrates the various ways in which that is true. This article should be food for thought indeed. Our patriarchal and capitalistic society clearly has a "cult of motherhood", in which the "ideal" of motherhood is so highly vaunted, worshipped even, but in practice actual Mothers themselves get about as much genuine respect as Rodney Dangerfield. Both during and after pregnancy, so many Mothers are routinely discriminated against, overworked, underpaid, and even outright criminalized in many cases. And meanwhile, there is to this day a powerful faction of mostly male politicians that is doing everything in their power to deny Women their right to choose whether or not to get (or stay) pregnant in the first place. Indeed, the rank hypocrisy of our misogynistic and pharisaical system is so thick you could cut it with a knife.
Meanwhile, old Buckminster Fuller (who, not coincidentally, believed that Women should rule the world) must be spinning in his grave right now. With today's technology and innovation, there is literally no legitimate reason why we as a society need "everybody and their mother" (literally!) to "work for a living" unless they really wanted to. There are more than enough resources in the world for everyone on this planet to live like a millionaire, but the greedy oligarchs who control such resources apparently don't want to share. Combined with the outdated scarcity mentality that men tend to favor (as opposed to the abundance mentality that Women tend to favor), those same oligarchs have also done everything in their power to sabotage any alternatives (i.e. free and renewable energy) to their own evil system that they force upon the rest of us. So why make them even richer?
Additionally, just as we should "dispense with the absolutely specious notion that everybody needs to earn a living" (in Bucky's words), so too should we jettison the equally specious and outdated idea that everybody must procreate as though it were a civic duty. Not only does today's technology make much useful human labor redundant, but the world is grossly overpopulated and will only get more so in the coming decades, and despite the abundance of the world's resources we are chewing through them like there is no tomorrow while destroying the planet. And the main cause of that overpopulation is--wait for it--MEN. Because they are the ones who, both historically and today, force, coerce, deceive, and/or brainwash Women to have kids that they otherwise would not want or are not yet ready for. Men like to "get 'em while they're young" and then use them as serial breeding slaves, essentially, and all the euphemisms in the world do not change that fact. It is really no coincidence that the two most effective (and ethical) ways to reduce overpopulation and excessively high birthrates are 1) female empowerment and 2) poverty reduction, while everything else is a mere sideshow. Because when Women actually have a free and genuine choice on when or whether or not to reproduce, they usually make the right choices overall. After all, they are the ones who have the most "skin in the game". So let the planetary healing begin!
MAMASTE
Sunday, May 1, 2016
Happy May Day / Beltane, Everyone!
Today, May 1, is May Day, also known as the Celtic and Neopagan holiday of Beltane. It has a rather long history and symbolizes many things, but it is most notably a day to honor the Goddess, which includes the Goddess in every Woman. Elephant Journal describes it rather nicely in their article about the holiday:
Another holiday I would like to propose is Waterloo Day, on April 30, the day before May Day. That would symbolize the (hopefully) eventual surrender of men to Women, which I personally predict will occur on April 30, 2030--the end of an error. Just as that day symbolizes the end of the "darker half" of the year and the beginning of the "lighter half", so too shall it symbolize the end of the 7000 years of darkness known as patriarchy and the beginning of the new earthly paradise known as Matriarchy. Note too that April 30, 1975 was also when the Vietnam War officially ended, and also in 1945 when a certain little painter from Austria did the world a huge favor by offing himself. And the song "War Pigs" by Black Sabbath was originally going to be called "Walpurgisnacht", which is another name for May Eve, or April 30. One idea for how to celebrate Waterloo Day would be for the men to get up on a platform or podium, give a concession speech as though stepping down from power, and have all the Women heckle and throw rotten tomatoes at them.
So have fun and enjoy the festivities, wherever you are!
Halfway between the Vernal Equinox and the Summer Solstice falls May Day—the original holiday of sex and abundance. If you’ve ever wondered, as I used to, what the hype was around May Day—as in why I always heard about ‘May Day’ but never seemed to witness anyone actually celebrating, here’s why. It’s deeply rooted in pagan nature and hedonistic sex worship and celebrations. As Christianity spread and the Church extended its reach and control, these pagan and Divine worships of masculine and feminine equality had to be forgotten. May 1st is Beltane in the Northern Hemisphere, the day we honor nature’s oldest love story. And we all love a love story. This is a holiday of union, between man and woman, God and Goddess—a celebration of the divine balance in the union of Divine masculine and feminine. Because once upon a time, the two were honored as sacred parts of the one Divine balance.Indeed. And among Neopagans today, Beltane is (usually) primarily about honoring the Divine Feminine, where as Samhain (October 31) is primarily about honoring the Divine Masculine. Thus, I propose that we shift International Women's Day (currently March 8) to May 1, and shift International Men's Day (November 19, coinciding with World Toilet Day, lol) to November 1. The latter, of course, should not be seen as a day to celebrate men, but rather as a day of atonement for the evil that men do, and have done for thousands of years now--a sort of all-male equivalent of Yom Kippur to essentially apologize to the Divine Feminine.
Another holiday I would like to propose is Waterloo Day, on April 30, the day before May Day. That would symbolize the (hopefully) eventual surrender of men to Women, which I personally predict will occur on April 30, 2030--the end of an error. Just as that day symbolizes the end of the "darker half" of the year and the beginning of the "lighter half", so too shall it symbolize the end of the 7000 years of darkness known as patriarchy and the beginning of the new earthly paradise known as Matriarchy. Note too that April 30, 1975 was also when the Vietnam War officially ended, and also in 1945 when a certain little painter from Austria did the world a huge favor by offing himself. And the song "War Pigs" by Black Sabbath was originally going to be called "Walpurgisnacht", which is another name for May Eve, or April 30. One idea for how to celebrate Waterloo Day would be for the men to get up on a platform or podium, give a concession speech as though stepping down from power, and have all the Women heckle and throw rotten tomatoes at them.
So have fun and enjoy the festivities, wherever you are!
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